I think my girlfriend is sending topless pics of herself to other men
DEAR DEIDRE: AM I just being paranoid? My girlfriend is always chatting to other men online and I saw a topless selfie on her phone.
She said she was going to send it to me but forgot.
I find that hard to believe. I don’t think it would be the sort of thing you’d forget to send. I want to check her phone to see if anything is going on.
I’m 24 and my girlfriend is 22. I often go on Facebook when I’m at work to see if she’s online, which she often is. She would go mad if she found out I’d been on her phone again. She says she’ll walk if I don’t trust her.
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DEIDRE SAYS: I can see she is not exactly filling you with confidence but snooping tends to cause more problems than it solves.
It’s OK for her to have male friends but their chats should be friendly, not flirty – the sort she would be perfectly happy to share with you.
If she resists that, it does not necessarily mean she is cheating on you.
But tell her it will drive a wedge between you. Either she is open and clearly trustworthy or you will feel compelled to walk.
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